In Her Own Words
About her
I have a love of life - Motivated a doer not a procrastinator. I have travelled extensively. I have been in business all my professional working life , self made, solid down to earth, I happily mix with people across the board . Sadly I have been widowed twice, once very young in my 30's then more recently in March 2026. I have no children I was unable to have them and sadly I now have no living family so life can be lonely at times but I am blessed with amazing friends and exceptional neighbours. My life is full and in the main happy. I am comfortable in all company. I am social easy to talk and laugh with. My appearance is proud I dress really well, I am slim and very fit and appreciate the the same attitude in the type of man I would be attracted too. I love to walk and cycle . A man needs to have a modern clean cut well groomed look, enjoy clothes both casual and dressy , if a man likes to be proud to have me on his arm it goes both ways, my standards are high both for myself and in the man that would attract me. I would like him to be at ease in nice restaurant's, I love to dine out and dine well . I am a foodie at heart quality over quantity and if I say so myself a good cook. I like nice not over the top, but not cheap wines. I have a beautiful home , a homemaker, a tidy living person. I am arty , practical, love DIY and interior design. I have a joy for life that lifts and excites others . My glass is always half full. Incidentally my photos are bang up to date and my age is true I expect that from you too
About her ideal match
All that I have said above - a man whose attitude is on par with my own, who likes a soft natured affectionate loving but confident female in his life..
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southend-on-Sea (Thorpe Bay), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
74 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Wealthy | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district SS1 (Southend-on-Sea) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
65 - 78 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Hair style: |
Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Instrumental; Opera |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Internet; Photography; Pottery; Sculpting; Singing; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cycling; Dance; Ice Skating; Snorkeling; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Feelings about using LocalLoves: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |