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SingleAgain_2013

75 – Southend-on-Sea, Essex, England

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Online: 18 February 2024

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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In His Own Words

About him

I am 73 retired and have been widowed for over 9 years.

To be frank I have no idea what I want for the rest of my life now. I miss the company of my wife and being with someone who it is a joy to be with and just talk about something or nothing. (There is more that I miss but would be too long winded to put here.)

Whoever reads this profile will appreciate that anyone, male or female who has reached my age has ideas and views that they have built up over time. It is known as life's experience! The last couple of years have cemented some of those views and has also given me a problem in how I respond to others along with who I want to be associated with and where that could lead.

There is no desire to meet someone who is locked up in misery and paranoia, (they may not realise they are). I want to be happy again, enjoy a good laugh, to be spontaneous and do "Stuff" together. My preference would be to meet someone who is self-sufficient and not have a needy personality. What this really means is that I don't want aggravation or problems that arise from their past.
Photography is my main hobby and wanting to improve my composition and technique. That does not mean I want to meet someone who is as keen as myself but they should appreciate what I want to achieve, just as I would encourage them with their interests. Obviously someone who is interested photography would be a bonus.
Locally my preference is to walk, driving when it is essential, I am not a fitness addict and enjoy eating most foods.

About his ideal match

A Relationship / Friendship is based on knowing someone and what makes them tick, words used on most of the profiles seen here could fit any scenario, so it will take time and effort for me to meet a lady who could become part of my life. The spark that takes that further will only come in time.

There is always the personal criteria used in identifying a new person to fill the gap that there is, it might be a style of dress, a smell, the way that person eats their food or any combination, so words alone will not do it for me. Being attracted to someone is a personal thing that is also true of me being attractive to someone else. . Being 68 does not mean that I'm not young at heart.

My marriage was one of trust, integrity and honesty which was a partnership that worked. My challenge is to find someone else that has the same characteristics and principles.

I have no interest in religious activity, I don't want to be converted, and being intolerant of cats... along with being a smoker would put you on my reject list.

It is difficult to create an ideal especially as everyone has their Idiosyncrasies having grown into their 50's / 60's and had previous relationships. Me included.

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Southend-on-Sea, Essex, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
75
Star sign:
Virgo
Height:
6' 0" (183cm)
Body type:
Stocky
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Light Brown
Eye colour:
Hazel
Relationship Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Further education
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Ask me later

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Within 10 miles of postcode district SS0 (Westcliff-on-Sea)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
50 - 65
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 3" (159cm) - 6' 0" (184cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Curvaceous
Looks:
Above Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Irreverent
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Patience; Sexiness
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; Medium; Well-behaved
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Blues; Dance / Disco; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock
Reading:
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally
Books:
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Science / Technology; Travel
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Variety shows
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Adult; Comedy; Drama; Mystery
Interests:
Computer programming; Internet; Investing; Music; Photography; Reading
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Darts; Fishing; Polo; Rugby; Snooker; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Doesn't matter; Italian; Seafood
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I'm retired
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Flirting; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
Never
Feelings about using LocalLoves:
Nervous; Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited; Jaded
Honesty:
Extremely