In Her Own Words
About her
I’m friendly, caring and apparently have a smile that gets noticed! I’m independent, but when someone makes the effort to make me happy, I’m very happy to return it. I don’t do drama or endless arguments these days — if something isn’t right for me, I’d rather walk away than waste energy fighting about it. I’m a glass-half-full kind of person and wake up each day believing it’s a new one, so I’m not looking to dwell on the past or spend my time with someone who is permanently grumpy! I’d love to meet someone who still wants to enjoy life - whether that means an adventure, a spontaneous day out, good food, plenty of laughter and intimacy, or occasionally putting our feet up for a TV marathon. I’m looking for a genuine partnership where we choose each other, have our own lives but love being together, and neither of us has any intention of simply sitting back and watching life pass us by.
About her ideal match
My perfect match is someone kind, confident and emotionally mature, with a positive outlook on life. Someone who knows who they are and has their own interests, but genuinely wants a partner to share life with. I’d love someone who makes an effort, enjoys affection and intimacy, and still has a spark for life - someone who would happily suggest an adventure or spontaneous day out, but would happily curl up together and watch a movie at times as well. I’m looking for someone who can laugh, communicate, and be affectionate. I am not looking for someone who needs rescuing, drinks heavily (as I am not a drinker myself), or carries the weight of the past around with them. Life is too short for constant negativity, arguments and sitting on the sidelines. Most importantly, I want us to feel like we’ve found our person -not because we need each other, but because life is better when we’re together.
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About her
Country of origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Colchester, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Ask me later | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district CO1 (Colchester) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
56 - 66 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
6' 0" (182cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
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