In Her Own Words
About her
Hello! This is where I get to 'big myself up' I think! I am NOT was woman, I am a transwoman which is a whole different animal. Sorry if this disappoints or offends, it is not intentional. I am looking to find another like me, a transwoman for friendship and travel. I love natural born women. I married 4 of them before I discovered I was trans. From that statistic alone you can deduce that I was probably not a good husband! This is absolutely a long-shot. I shall come clean from the outset, I am 'severely sight impaired' with an eye disease that started when I was 19. I have always worked and live independently. I have no children of my own but have fostered 50. I walk a lot, often 3 miles a day or more (I live a long way from Lidl!), I have a tandem and did the London to Brighton in 2024 and will do it again in 2026. I am a reasonable cook, hate gardening, love animals but don't have any. I have 3 wonderful sisters and we are the oldest generation left in our family - scary! I am asexual - I don't mean 'a sexual' anything, I have no interest in anything sexual. I have a few good friends that I socialise and holiday with but only one lives within 100 miles and only 2 of them are retired. It would be nice to have a companion for UK holidays, I don't need a guide or a carer but someone to share the fun and avoid the single supplement would be good! I am open to offers 'hit me up' as they say (always sounded a bit violent to me!).
About her ideal match
Oh, I thought I had finished!! My ideal match would be someone retired with a silly sense of humour, I laugh at myself and my mistakes aa lot. I love satire and irony. Someone fit to walk a few miles, someone who doesn't mind speaking aloud when they are reading a menu to give me half a chance! Someone daft enough to go on the front of my tandem would be asking too much! Someone up for an adventure and travel.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Lewes, East Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
70 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district BN9 (Newhaven) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 75 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Funny; Generous; Independent; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Wild |
Disabilities: |
I have a visual impairment |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Interests: |
Acting; Music; Photography |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Cycling; Motorsport; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing someone, but not exclusively |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Honesty: |
Very |










