In His Own Words
About him
Currently living a nice life East of Winchester with my high maintenance, young Labrador and where I work at home.
What is there to say about myself?
Relaxed, easy going (though principled), fairly competent and a bit of a nerd but contrary to the stereotype I enjoy the outdoors!
I’ve always enjoyed keeping fit, exercising every day is now a necessity with an active dog but I also continue to hit the gym a few times each week without fail.
At home, I cook from scratch most days; I’ve spent a large part of my life being the cook of the house and I'm no stranger to a pan, or a spoon.
I’ll read most things though I particularly enjoy books with a historical theme or topic. Academic texts, or fiction I'll consume them all though the geek in me also enjoys a good sci-fi.
I love boardgames with friends, the odd video game and music: rock, folk, blues .. where someone can actually play an instrument!
I'm happy gardening, love wild places, cold wind, don’t mind the rain, I'm not squeamish, am fairly practical, enjoy a long empty beach, a pub or a place with some history to it where I can watch the world and mull some philosophy.
I find the past absolutely fascinating and the possibilities of a bright future as something to wonder at. I try to stay present, though it's not always easy when the mind wanders!
About his ideal match
Perhaps you have a philosophical outlook to life, enjoy random chit-chat, can stand to be outdoors some of the time, are tactile, open, enjoy keeping yourself fit but don’t take yourself too seriously .. if some of these strike a chord then perhaps we might see if we have anything else in common.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Winchester, Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
6' 2" (188cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
IT / Telecoms | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district SO32 (Southampton) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
52 - 64 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Other | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Other | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Food / Catering; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Transportation; Other; Agriculture; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Retail; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Folk; Heavy Metal; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Badminton; Basketball; Bodyboarding; Hiking; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using LocalLoves: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |








