In His Own Words
About him
INTP & Enneagram Type 9. Flung into the world and making something of it. Probably caught the 'tism on the way in but it's well-hidden most of the time. Low time preference, hermetic, empathetic; riding the tiger. Into computers, cars, philosophy, writing, music and RPGs, but the outdoors isn't bad either.
No, I don't have Snap or Insta. Got email for writing, WhatsApp for family, and Discord since Skype died if you wanted to play EU:VI or BG3 whilst trading memes. For anything else I've got a 2004 Honda Accord with 160 VTEC-boosted hrsprr ready to go.
About his ideal match
Looking for someone stable, financially secure and relaxed in herself, with some overlapping interests but enough bubbliness to counteract my stoicism.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Exeter, Devon, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
28 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
18 - 30 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Yes | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Honesty; Humility |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Hair style: |
Short; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Punk |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fantasy; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Cult Classics; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Music; Reading |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; French; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using LocalLoves: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |