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arejay

78 – Cardiff, Cardiff, Wales

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In His Own Words

About him

I would like to think that I am reasonably intelligent with a GSOH,although it does tend to be with a dry,sometimes ironic side.I am ( I think ) pretty casual and easygoing,but capable of holding some quite strong views on times.
I have two children,both married,and one grandson,fortunately they live quite near.
I miss being part of a couple,the kissing ,the holding of hands the shared private little jokes but above all the intimate little looks that sometimes mean more than words can ever say.
Anyway !!!...To move on.
I am very much a classical music lover and enjoy both listening at home and going to live concerts and plan on going to the Proms this year.
I enjoy watching rugby very much and particularly follow the fortunes (good and bad) of Wales and also enjoy watching cricket.
I have a keen interest in news and current affairs.I very much enjoy the nature programs and particularly the David Attenborough ones...What an absolutely remarkable man, who has done more than anybody I think to raise our awareness of the wonderful and beautiful world which we live in and yet are in very real danger of destroying.
I have really enjoyed holidays and travel,and loved Canada for the spectacular scenery and the wonderful people.I was really taken with Berlin,for the history and the culture.My ambition - and...yes !!!...I still have them - would be to visit South Africa.For some reason it has always been a dream of mine...Cape Town...the Garden Route...Stellenbosch...Cape of Good Hope...and,above all else...Safari...one of these days !!!!...Just allow me to dream about this...it's a harmless enough past time
BTW for those who are interested the photos were taken June 2016

About his ideal match

This is the question that I have been putting off for a long time,and even now,I know that I am going to struggle with it so please bear with me as I put this in a little bit at a time.
The one thing that I know would be a "deal breaker" would be no smoking...at all.
I would like to meet someone who is warm and affectionate with whom I could share good conversations about all sorts of subjects,a good laugh and who enjoys good culture ie concerts,theatre,shows,and good taste in food and drink.
I would enjoy sharing an interest in each others activities and hobbies and hopefully learn a little from each others likes

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Cardiff, Cardiff, Wales
Gender:
Male
Age:
78
Star sign:
Cancer
Height:
5' 10" (178cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Shaved
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
Secondary
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Christian / Protestant

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district CF81 (Bargoed)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
67 - 77
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 7" (171cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
English
Religion:
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Hairy
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Opera
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; War
Interests:
Acting; Card games; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Politics; Reading; The arts
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Athletics; Cricket; Rugby; Walking
Food
Food:
Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family size:
I'm an only child
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like them at the zoo
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Power; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Dream home:
In the country
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using LocalLoves:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely